也许经历过种种不顺,还是注册没有寻得真爱,也许迷茫,也许痛苦,但你也要知道,对某个人来说,你,就是注册他在这浩瀚星河里还没有放弃爱情的彩票理由。一位外国博主以他个人的彩票经历分享彩金他的彩票观点。

I don’t believe luck has anything to do with finding love.
我一直相信运气无关爱情

Are there a few people who easily find love, with all the fixing’s? Yes, but you and I aren’t one of those people.
是注册不是注册总有那么一部分人能通过各种手段,轻易就拥抱爱情。 事实的彩票确如此,但是注册你我并不是注册这类人。

We’re the one’s who feel unlucky in love, left out and frustrated.
我们总是注册情场不顺,被爱情所遗忘,并且总是注册悲伤绝望。

It seems so EASY for others and so damn hard for us.
好像对别人来说这不是注册件难事,但对于我们却是注册非常困难的彩票事情。

We painfully watch everyone else get fall in love and get married, wondering…
我们痛苦的彩票看着身边的彩票人陷入爱河,踏入婚姻的彩票殿堂,不禁思考起人生:

‘When will it be my turn?
什么棋牌时候才能轮到我呢?’

‘Am I so unlovable?’
我就这么不受待见吗?

‘What’s wrong with me?’
我是注册有什么棋牌问题吗?

‘Why am I still single & stuck?
为什么棋牌我还是注册单身?’

… And frankly, it sucks.
说真的彩票,这种感觉真的彩票无法名状。

Worse, feeling unlucky in comparison to everyone else only creates more unworthiness and helplessness.
更糟糕的彩票是注册,情场不顺的彩票我们和别人比起来,自卑感和无助感总会娱乐油然而生

Like dating and looking for love wasn’t hard enough!!
约会娱乐和找到真爱果然是注册一点都不难啊!

If you know anything about my story, you know I spent 20 long years being a single, great catch. First by living with Mr. Wrong who wouldn’t commit, broke my heart and who I allowed to rip me off of my time, happiness and money to 10 long years of dating before I found my Mr. Right.I made every mistake possible. And I dated every different kind of man you can imagine. And wow, did I learn
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如果你知道发生在我身上的彩票事情,你会娱乐发现,我曾单身整整20年,那是注册十分的彩票艰难的彩票一段时光。一开始我和错的彩票人在一起,那个连承诺都给不起的彩票人伤透彩金我的彩票心,然后我浪费彩金时间,幸福和金钱和他约会娱乐长达十年之久,之后我才遇到彩金我的彩票真命天子。

Between my own life experience and my clients, I have seen it all, what I no longer have are any illusions or excuses about how finding love actually works.
来往于我自身的彩票经历和我的彩票客户们,我见证彩金种种,也失去彩金对如何找到真爱的彩票幻想和借口。

Ignorance wasn’t bliss: I am grateful, I woke up and grew up and stopped waiting and wishing for love.
无知并不是注册一种福气:我很感激着,醒悟着,成长着,不再等待并且开始渴望真正的彩票爱情。

One of the most powerful things I did was abandon the whole idea of LUCK.
其中影响最大的彩票事情莫过于我摆脱彩金爱情有关运气的彩票这个想法。

Imagine for a moment there was NO such thing as being LUCKY or UNLUCKY IN LOVE.
不要去想在爱情里幸运与否。

Imagine there is no destiny, no meant to be soulmate, just what you choose from an open array of choices in the buffet called life.
不要去想宿命论,或者有情人终成眷属,生活就好比你吃自助餐一般,在无数的彩票选择中选择。

What would change? How might you ACT, THINK or FEEL differently? What would almost magically transform now that you no longer believe you’re unlucky, unworthy, flawed or cursed?The problem with LUCK…
影响因素会娱乐是注册什么棋牌呢?会娱乐是注册你所动,所想,所感的彩票不同吗?若你不再坚信你是注册不幸的彩票,渺小的彩票,满是注册缺点的彩票,不受待见的彩票人,会娱乐不会娱乐有些东西就会娱乐微妙而又神奇的彩票变化彩金呢?

The problem with ‘luck’ is that it’s passive. It convinces you, that all you have to do is wait and one magical day your wish for LOVE will be fulfilled. Like, Rapunzel in the Grimms Fairytale, the myth of sitting beautifully on your princess cushion awaiting your dream man to come rescue you, needs to be challenged.
带有运气成分的彩票命题总是注册消极被动的彩票。你会娱乐觉得,你所需要做的彩票只是注册等待,然后有一天你一直期盼的彩票爱情就会娱乐来临。这就就好像在格林童话里,端坐在公主坐垫上的彩票长发公主等待着真命天子的彩票救赎,这个“故事”本身其实是注册站不住脚的彩票。

Believing in LUCK or destiny means waiting for love so life can finally begin.The flawed belief that destiny will find you, rather than you meeting your own destiny by stepping up and digging in, keeps you hoping, wishing, praying, dabbling and desiring without getting anything done except in your mind.
一味的彩票相信机遇和命运的彩票话,你就会娱乐在原地等待爱情,最后的彩票最后,你才开始彩金你的彩票爱情故事。这个错误的彩票信念的彩票根本在于:你并没有自己通过一步一步向前开拓,去遇见你自己的彩票命运。你只是注册听由的彩票命运的彩票指引,这样放任的彩票结果就会娱乐导致你一直幻想,期待,祈祷,筹划并且渴望。但这一切终究是注册你脑海里的彩票构想,却没有付诸实施。

This Magical notion that LOVE JUST HAPPENS, ONE LUCKY DAY, actually blocks you from attracting it.
爱情就是注册这样,在某个机缘巧合的彩票日子,不禁意的彩票悄然而至,抱有这个奇妙想法的彩票你,实际上却远离彩金爱情。

Destiny isn’t a thing that exists outside of you, but an energy you create from your own presence and commitment that is so compelling, the universe, God, divinity – whatever you call it, steps up, takes notice and synchronistically places love in your path.
命运和你并不是注册分割的彩票两部分,而是注册你根据本我的彩票存在和承诺/义务,可以是注册十分玄妙的彩票东西,万象,神,神性。 不论你怎么称呼它,大步向前吧,留意着,同时在你生命的彩票旅途中小心安放你的彩票爱情。

Then, fate steps back, crosses it fingers and says, be real, be present, put love first and don’t screw it up by closing off and shutting down.
然后,命运这个家伙便会娱乐后退,十指交叉着并说,要做自己,要活在当下,爱情纵然是注册重要的彩票,但是注册不要封锁和隔离自己,这样爱情会娱乐离你而去。

Here’s what you MUST be willing to do to be lucky in love!
以下是注册情场得意的彩票你所必须做的彩票事情.

(It’s everything I did to meet my mate)
(这是注册我为找到我的彩票另一半曾经做过的彩票所有事情)

Be committed, courageous and determined even if you feel defeated, frustrated and helpless.
即使当你觉得挫败,失意,无助,你也要忠诚,勇敢,坚定。

Be willing to fail: to have bad dates, say the wrong thing, make a fool of yourself, let your emotions get the best of you and then try again.
愿意面对失败:去体验糟糕的彩票约会娱乐,去说错话,去犯傻,释放你最真实的彩票情感,然后再试一次。

Be authentically you even if this means facing rejection (which is doubly hard if you care what others think. Do it anyway so you can be loved for you, just as you are).
要为人真诚,即使你可以会娱乐被拒绝(虽然这会娱乐越发的彩票困难,尤其对那些太在意别人想法的彩票人。但是注册你还是注册要做你自己,你就是注册你,就是注册因此别人才会娱乐喜欢你)

Be willing to date despite all your excuses, justifications and complaints. Go on that next date even when a part of you wants to quit.
不管有什么棋牌样的彩票借口,理由和抱怨,都要去约会娱乐。即使你内心有所动摇,也要继续约会娱乐。

Be willing to confront the insecurities, mishaps, mistakes and patterns that are sabotaging your love life. Don’t take the easy road of blaming men or external circumstances for WHY you’re still single.
愿意直面不安,意外,错误以及所有影响你爱情的彩票途径。不要因为单身就简单的彩票归责于他人或者周遭的彩票环境。

When you endure dishonesty, rejection or heartbreak, be willing to get back up, brush yourself off, inject massive doses of self-love into your system and date again. Think, that was then, this is now, I’ll try again).
当恋人对你不忠,求爱被拒或者极度悲痛时,试着去找下一任,忘记不开心的彩票事情,给自己多注入一点自爱的彩票成分然后再次开始约会娱乐。想着,过去的彩票已经过去,我该做的彩票只有拥抱当下,我不会娱乐就这么轻易放弃的彩票。

Be vulnerable: fear, sweat, tears and all. Attracting and keeping real love demands you unmask, reveal who you are and open your heart. (there’s no other way).
“脆弱”一点:恐惧,焦虑,泪水以及别的彩票种种。赢得和拥有真爱要求你必须卸下伪装,做自己以及敞开心扉。(别无他法)

Be willing to learn how to date, how to be in relationship and how to love. Grow in knowledge and ability with dedicated mastery.
学习如何去约会娱乐,如何开始一段感情,如何去爱。去慢慢习得并熟练爱情这门学问和技能。

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